It's a gay world

Ok..so watching the movie, Monster in Law, there are quite a few gay references, i.e. "I'm not gay" or "too bad he's gay"..etc, lines and things like that. It also had a "gay best friend" character. It wasn't offensive, but got me wondering..do straight people get that obsessed with who's gay and who's not? Does the straight world really focus on that? Interesting concept I guess.

I also notice what a great big gay world there is by going out to a gay bar. Seems like there is always a great cross section of types of gay people at a bar...no matter what kind of bar it is..just an observation.